Ah yes ❤️ I have loved this post since the moment I read it. It remains one of my favorites. So succinct and yet, so potently beautiful. An excellent read all around 😘
I just want to be seen.
All of me, not just the parts I carefully choose to show you. That “me” is based on your preconceptions, my fears, and our history (or lack thereof). I just want to be seen.
I don’t want to be seen.
Let your eyes slide right past me, my words go unnoticed. When you ask me a question, I panic, fearing to reveal too much. I don’t want to be seen.
There is no contradiction here.
I just want to be seen…and loved for what you see. I don’t want to be seen…and rejected, ridiculed, reviled. Which direction I go depends on your reaction, and the reactions of all who have come before you, whether you know them or not. It depends on how much risk I want to take, to gamble that this time will be different. And you should know: the odds are…
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